In a stranger approach this is what should be done before parting ways, since hind brain attraction alone is not enough for her to see you again to even give you a chance ti meet her again.
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So eventually, what I am essentially doing with my game is first UNDERSTANDing how to generate SUBCONSCIOUS ATTRACTION ( VERY IMPORTANT) and then I make it into CONSCIOUS ATTRACTION. If she knows she likes you, she will ACT like she likes you: Hense she will… -return your calls, -think about you a lot more -Make it easy for you to seduce her – etc etc etc. This is what the romantic connection is all about. This means that she is aware that she truly wants you romantically. In stranger approaching, you will have to convert her attraction from subconscious to conscious attraction ( aka Fore-brain ). If the girl is in your social circle then you have a major advantage since you can see her easily over-and-over again and simply wait for easy openings to game her gradually until she feels drawn to you. Subconscious attraction (hind-brain) is VOLATILE. That’s why stranger approach is very difficult because even when you do create attraction, it will fade away very quickly unless you generated a ‘romantic connection’ with her before parting ways. The problem with subconscious attraction is that they don’t know that they are attracted to you. That explains the mixed signals they give us. The truth is, a girls attraction for you in the early stages will be subconscious (aka hind-brain attraction) many of the times. There was no clear metric for me to be able to determine how romantically into me they were. Even when they met me on DATES after I went DIRECT and told them I liked them they still ended up just wanting to “take things slow” or “let’s be friends first”. Even in stranger approaching, when I tried the first generation pickup, it was really hard to know where I stood with the girl. In fact, in social circle it’s more difficult to tell how the girl really feels about you since she is more comfortable with you as friends. I’ve had many situations, in my early pre-pick up stages, where I would swear the girl must romantically like me based on the amount of attention she gave me and I was WRONG. Especially when it does not pan out the way you want it. I know how frustrating dating can be when girls men give mixed signals.